The 6-Month VIP Coaching Intensive Program

Imagine a life free of social anxiety!

What if you could finally overcome your social anxiety? And what if it could happen without having to force yourself to face your fears alone?

That's not just a dream-it's possible when you apply tapping in the right way.

Through personalized online Zoom coaching, I'll guide your tapping from the comfort of your own home.

Together, we'll tackle and eliminate the negative emotions and limiting beliefs that have been holding you back. Imagine feeling calm, comfortable, and at ease in every social situation. What would that be life for you?

Sebastiaan van der Schrier
Social Confidence Coach

By combining the best of traditional psychology with tapping and energy psychology, I've developed a highly effective approach that consistently helps clients who previously struggled with other therapies. Watch and read about their amazing transformations on this page.

I suffered from social anxiety for nearly a decade before discovering effective solutions over 22 years ago. Since then, I've dedicated my life to overcoming my own social anxiety and helping others do the same.

Free from social anxiety for years, I've been coaching clients full-time since October 2009, amassing over 7000+ hours, including 600 hours of group coaching.

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After my 3 sessions with Sebastiaan,

I've noticed marked differences in how I felt during social situations. I felt more at ease and able to contribute to conversations and really enjoy myself without having to worry about what others thought of me.

Even though I still feel anxiety at times, I believe it is no more than a normal person would feel, and it does not affect me in a negative way. My social anxiety is no longer controlling my life, and I am so grateful for that!


Thanks, Sebastiaan! Trevor

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John Farrar

“I had all the social anxiety symptoms. Blushing, sweating, blanking out. I was exhausted after a social situation. I was miserable. I hated it. Now I just don't feel that way anymore. I'm just being me, and that's good enough”.

Transform Your Life
with Our Exclusive 6-Month VIP Coaching

In 2020, I shifted my focus to leading our large Social Confidence Club and developing a program to train elite 'Social Confidence Practitioners’.


Now, I occasionally offer an exclusive 6-month VIP intensive coaching package to a select few dedicated individuals. This is a rare opportunity to work directly with me on a deep, transformative level to overcome your social anxiety once and for all.

This program is not available year-round and is not suitable for everyone. If you suffer from additional compounding issues such as.

  • Medium to severe depression
  • History of sexual abuse
  • Bipolar disorder
  • OCD

I am unfortunately not trained to assist with these conditions. However, if you suffer from social anxiety disorder alone, I am confident I can help you regardless of how severe or long-standing your case may be. I invite you to explore this page and listen to the amazing transformations from former ‘tough case’ clients. If they can change, so can you.


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Before I worked with Seb, I couldn't even go out to coffee with my best friend without feeling nervous for days.

I would hide in my room during parties or force myself to attend, feeling terribly anxious the entire time I definitely hated pictures and video taken of myself.After coaching with Seb and using his methods, I started an Airbnb & event business with my husband and LOVE hosting parties! I sing and speak on stage with confidence and have a YouTube channel. Seb helped me unlock my life's calling...because your greatest gift is often hiding behind.



My Advice 

My advice?

Start coaching with Seb as fast as possible. It will be your greatest gift to yourself, and you'll watch your life transform. Seriously. Do it now.

Here’s What’s Inside the 6-Month VIP Intensive

Twelve powerful breakthrough
coaching sessions.

Duration: 2 hours each


Frequency: Every other week

Guided tap exercises
tailored to your unique needs

Specific exercises between sessions
to help you release social anxiety faster.

Specific tapping routines

Tap-alongs and strategies to release:


  • Anxiety before a scary social situation.
  • Anxiety during a difficult social situation.
  • Anxiety/worry/upset after a shitty social situation.

One 90-minute PSYCH-K session.

Together we’ll install key identity beliefs
essential for social confidence.


A 90-minute TAT healing session.

TAT is a powerful healing modality that allows you to work through social anxiety issues without knowing the cause or reliving the pain We start with one full TAT session at the start of our intensive. So that you can use the replay over and over for personal inner work sessions. Just hit play and follow along for easy releasing of your social anxiety triggers!

Two years of Social Confidence Club membership

This complements our coaching with continuous access to resources, tap-a longs, comprehensive tapping training, and live group coaching sessions. Being part of our supportive community with people who have made incredible transformations already will inspire and motivate you.

What to Expect

Every other week we’ll meet and have a 2 hours breakthrough session. During that time, we look at your biggest social anxiety issue, and either take a chunk out of it, or neutralise it completely. During our next session we take your next biggest social anxiety issue, and tackle that one. And so on and so forth. So after each session your SA issue gets smaller. 

In the first month we will use PSYCH-K to install essential identity beliefs for social confidence. And, we will do a powerful TAT session to heal the deepest cause of your social anxiety. The main event is of course the coaching. And yet, you’ll also receive guided tapping exercises tailored to your unique needs, and specific tapping routines for different social situations. And, you’ll be able to use a specific guided TAT session to tackle specific SA issues.

  • Eliminate the deepest causes of your social anxiety
  • Reduce your social anxiety bit by bit.
  • Decrease the frequency and intensity of anxiety triggers
  • Boost your self-esteem, shift limiting beliefs, and build self-acceptance.
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“ Life has been a complete change. My self-esteem and self-compassion have improved, and there's so much less criticism about my person now. I experience a deeper connection and a lot more depth in life. I've created a business and done so many things that I probably wouldn't have done without overcoming my social anxiety ”.

“ I went from hiding in the bathroom during social events to confidently leading conversations and gatherings ”.

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“ I've been more able to express myself without fear or judgment. It’s raised up my self-esteem to the point where, if someone doesn't like me, it’s okay. There's been a lot of peace in that. I'm much more calmer, much more present in the moment ”.

I was scared of everyone, felt the need to avoid a lot of events, places, and people. Now, I got to start with a new living situation, new job, new people, new friends, new everything.

The program is

$15 000…

If after our 6-month intensive there is any social anxiety left, you’ll have developed simple and effective ways to manage any remaining anxiety on your own. Plus, you’ll have 6 additional power sessions to use at any time within a period of 2 years, ensuring you continue to have support as you solidify your progress. In the rare event that you want further assistance beyond that, I’ll be available to support you as needed.

During our journey together, I’ll literally take you by the hand and guide you out of the social anxiety jungle so you can start feeling more calm, peace, and true social confidence. In other words, these coming 6 months will profoundly increase your social ease and be absolutely life-changing. Many clients have told me that our coaching has been by far the best investment of their lives.

When you are committed to overcoming your SA and would like to work together, please fill in the application form below. It will require you to fill in a client form. Once I've reviewed this my assistant Lia/Aira will set our intro chat up with you. This way, you can get a feel of our connection, ask me anything, and see if we’re a good match.
If so, we'll be able to get started on your journey to social confidence within 2 weeks from now.
Looking forward to connecting with you. 

 

Get Started Now

  • Fill out the application form.
  • We'll set up your intro chat within a week.
  • Begin your journey to social confidence within two weeks.
Apply Now

Ready to Transform Your Life? 

If you're committed to overcoming your social anxiety and want to work together, please fill out the form below. This will allow us to schedule a 20-minute introductory chat where we can discuss your situation and see if we're a good match.

"I NEVER would have done that before.
It was exhilarating."

As a psychotherapist myself with a history of social anxiety, talk therapy alone just wasn’t cutting it.
Now I see the value of using a strong experiential component to give the painful feelings a chance
to move out after being evoked That’s why the tapping works so well and quickly. It helps move out the feelings that Sebastiaan helps to call up.

 

Before I started tapping with Sebastiaan, I struggled with social anxiety for years worrying about sweating and blushing, embarrassment and humiliation, and anticipating all kinds of situations with trepidation.

I would isolate and hide to protect myself… and I’m a person who loves connection.

It created unnecessary dependencies and A LOT of negative thoughts and beliefs about myself,
a lot of shame, hopelessness, fear and an unwillingness to move forward in life. Boy was I doing a dance to get through every day.

The frustration and all that toxic energy that I was holding in my system was very uncomfortable.
I was afraid to go to parties and definitely really scared to go alone.

I felt like I needed to please people to be accepted. I would hide from authority figures. I had trouble being assertive even though I have strong preferences.

The tapping sessions I’ve been doing with Sebastiaan have helped significantly. I have been in a lot of different types of therapy over the years and for me, this one is remarkably effective.

The combination of the tapping technique and Sebastiaan’s skills and insight have created more forward movement
in a short period of time than ever before.

He really is an expert on social anxiety and all of the traps that a person with social anxiety finds himself in.

And I’m not gonna lie, I’m so impressed by him. It’s the combination of his ability to be highly attuned and so articulate that works so well.

His precision cuts through the walls and defenses, gets me in touch with the deeper feelings and assumptions, and with the tapping, moves it out… all while giving me a new and more effective way to frame how I can approach future situations feeling safe and interested in embracing life. I’m happy to report that now I’m trying lots of things that I used to be afraid of.



I’m more interested in going to parties and I’m actually enjoying them.

I’m getting more in touch with what’s important to me and feel hopeful, and I’m so much less depressed.

I’m less isolated and feel more secure with myself to engage with all different kinds of people. 

My anxiety has reduced significantly.




When I do feel anxious as I try new things,
I don’t shame myself for blushing or sweating or looking nervous.

I’m more proud of myself for sticking with it even when it’s uncomfortable.,

Recently, I invited someone I was chatting with in line at a restaurant to join me and have a meal together.
I NEVER would have done that before. It was exhilarating.

  • I went to a wedding reception on my own and it was fine
  • I’m excited to keep discovering myself.
  • I’m excited to keep trusting myself and what I know is important to me.
  • I’m even learning to let go of other people’s perceptions of me
  • As I concern myself more with my own self acceptance.

My advice, give Sebastiian and this process a try. The proof is in the pudding.
You’ll know if it’s working in a short period of time. No need to guess.

Adam | Psychotherapist

Rapid results. No years of seeing a therapist. Feel relief after the first coaching session. Notice your social anxiety reduce in just a few weeks.

Relatively painless. No endless talking about your past. No painful reliving of trauma. Using Energy psychology techniques (like "EFT" Emotional Freedom Techniques") you quickly stop reliving the pain of your past.

No awkward facing of your fears. Using EFT you face your fears internally. We get to the roots of your fears and eliminate them. Now you face what you used to fear with confidence.

  • You suffer from severe depression.
  • You are suicidal.
  • You suffer from multiple personality disorder.

NOTE:You can be helped for any of the above. However, I specialise in social anxiety alone. If you have mild depression resulting from social anxiety, I can likely help you. But when any of the other above-mentioned describe your issue, I recommend contacting your mental health care provider for assistance. There are many EFT-experts available who are also qualified therapists. Find one who has experience successfully helping people overcome what you're dealing with. When in doubt, reach out for an intro-chat and we'll discuss what your best option would be.

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