When she’s in a social situation, her heart races. Her mind starts to blank. Her chest and stomach get tight and often she has this lump in her throat.

Of course, this makes it impossible to socialize. She comes off socially inept.

She feels awkward. Uncool. inferior to people who socialize easily. 

She believes there's something wrong with her. That she doesn't fit in. That she is weird and different.

Her social anxiety is consuming her life. 

When she wakes up, she’s worried about who she’ll run into that day. Or how she’ll manage dealing with this difficult person.

She’s afraid people will see her anxious. And judge her for it.

If there’s anything she’s afraid of, it’s that: people’s negative judgment.

She needs to look good and avoid looking bad socially.

And so she filters the way she comes across. She's constantly trying to get everyone’s approval, love, and acceptance.

She tries hard to do all the “right things”. And works to avoid doing any of the “wrong things”.

Because God forbid, she doesn’t want to risk disapproval, rejection, ridicule. Or being seen as weird or different.

Because of this mask that she has on socially she feels inauthentic.

And socializing is exhausting.

And after yet another horrible social experience, she beats herself up mercilessly.

She hates who she is when she feels anxious.

She feels like a loser.

She’s ashamed of herself and where she is in life.

She knows she has all this potential, but it can’t come out because of this frustrating social anxiety.

And Mary -age 25 now- has concluded she won't grow out of it.

Her social anxiety won't go away by itself. 

She's tortured by worries about her future (career, reputation, relationships...)

And she feels really STUCK.

There's nothing she wants more than to just fit in with a group of people she enjoys spending time with. 

But it's all so difficult for her. 

She knows logically her fears don't make sense...

... but that doesn't stop them from ruling her life. 

She feels out of control emotionally.

Now Mary found my Social Anxiety Solutions online a long time ago.

She watched a video on Youtube.

Initially, she was skeptical.

Especially when she heard me talk about tapping.

She was very skeptical.

"How can tapping on your face and body possibly make you socially confident?!"

But good on Mary; she actually tries it.

And -no surprise here- she taps and feels calmer after. She’s a tiny bit less worried. Feels a little less awkward. A little more at ease with herself.

Nice!

The change in her feelings is undeniable. She starts feeling somewhat hopeful…

“Maybe I really can beat my social anxiety!”

So she taps more. And more. And more.

But soon, she runs into trouble.

Before a social situation, she gets SUPER ANXIOUS.

And she doesn’t know how to calm herself down…

When she feels anxious in the moment, she has no strategy for what to do.

And afterwards when she’s beating herself up, she can keep doing that for a loooooong time.

On top of that:

• She only has temporary results (her anxiety keeps coming back to bite her in the ass)
• She isn't sure she’s ‘doing it right’
• She doesn’t know the right words to say 
• She doesn't know ‘what to tap on’
• She is clueless about how to tap in the right way

Further…

• She often gets stuck and can’t release a painful feeling or limiting belief 
• She procrastinates and experiences other forms of subconscious resistance
• She feels overwhelmed at the big task of beating her SA
• She loses her motivation
• She feels STUCK

So she stops tapping and…

… still feels anxious around others.

And worse, she now starts losing hope… 

“Maybe this tapping thing doesn’t work for me… :*-( “

Unfortunately, this happens when you only know the basics. 

Only knowing the basics is not enough to get rid of your social anxiety. 

You’ll be able to have some success with the basics alone, but social anxiety a complex issue. 

It takes more than knowing the basics to become socially confident.

And... 

To beat your social anxiety, feel calm and at ease socially, and enjoy connecting with others…

… requires a lot more than some basic tapping.

Now if Mary would not go any further than the basics, she would likely give up on ever achieving social confidence.

She’d start to rationalize:

“Maybe I just had a good day when I experienced that shift. Tapping only gets temporary results. It’s just a relaxation tool. I'm probably a tough case and nothing works for me anyway… “

She might still tap every now and then, but only in emergency situations.

She no longer uses it to actually overcome her social anxiety.

She gives up on the possibility of just feeling normal, comfortable, at ease, and self-confident.

She sighs “… it sounded too good to be true anyway.”

She now can at best can manage her life it a bit better, so it sucks just a little less…

She almost resigns to living with social anxiety for the rest of her life…

If so, I have good news for you.

I had all the problems Mary had when I first found out about tapping. 

At first I thought “yeah right, this can’t be for real, must be some scam, too good to be true”. 

But after posting on one of the forums and getting tons of replies of people raving about its effectiveness 
("life-changing", "worked where nothing else did", "I overcame my lifelong phobia", "I overcame my trauma", "my PTSD is gone completely", etc.) ...

... I decided to find out for myself. 

I read the free EFT manual online which gave me the basics. I thought that was enough. 

I knew the mechanics of tapping. Set up phrase. Focus on the problem. Do the tapping… 

Easy!

All I needed to know, I thought.  

I wondered why anyone would ever go see an EFT practitioner. What a waste of money when this technique is so simple!

Well, was I ever wrong…

I tried and tried with the basics, but I only got minor results. And I kept thinking

“this can’t be it, right? Where are these profound lasting changes in MY life?”

I had many problems with tapping…  

• I often got stuck and couldn’t release an emotion, no matter how hard I tried.
  
  
• I couldn’t find any memories to tap on, and didn’t know what were the right ones. 
  
  
• I tried tapping on my symptoms, but I only got minor relief. And it was temporary.
  
  
• Which was disheartening and made me lose hope…
  
  
• I didn’t know the right words to say. 
  
  
• I was searching for tap-alongs, hoping there was this one magical tap-along that would solve me issue…
  
  
• I felt overwhelmed. I didn’t know how to apply it to social anxiety. 
  
  

And most of all, my anxiety still sucked just as much after all my tapping!

Which led to this big fear that I’d never overcome it. And that I’d have to LIVE WITH MY SOCIAL ANXIETY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE

When thinking of the future with all its inevitable challenges I realized it would only get worse. 

I was horrified that I wouldn’t be able to hide it anymore. I panicked when thinking about my reputation. And it was beyond depressing to consider what this would do for my love life. 

I saw a bleak future full of fear, insecurity and shame. 

I had seen much evidence that tapping worked for so many people.

But no one had ever used it for social anxiety... 

What if it doesn’t work for that?

I saw tapping as my last resort. If tapping didn’t work, I’d have a BIG problem. 

So I kept going. 

I did lose my motivation over and over, due to lack of results. But the pain of my suffering (every time I got triggered badly…) kept me going. 

I simply felt I had no other option. 

And ANY RELIEF FROM MY SOCIAL ANXIETY WAS WELCOME!

All the other stuff I tried (changing thoughts, facing fears, NLP, Hypnosis, -any self help technique known to man-) did nothing for me.

After 6 months of trying in vain, studying Gary Craig’s advanced training DVD’s, and reading all I could online, I buckled:

I decided to get help. 

The EFT expert I called suggested I came to his workshop (actually, I went to two in a row).

At the workshop I learned how to tap. 

And this is when everything changed for me.

Tapping Mastery

4 hours of video instruction (+ transcripts and summaries) on how to tap like a pro. 

And this isn’t like a normal tapping training: This is specifically created to help social anxiety suffers.

You’ll learn from the many examples I use from former social anxiety clients. You’ll be able to relate to this (‘wow I feel I exactly the same”) and you’ll realize you’re not alone.

You’ll be motivated and inspired throughout so you’ll actually finish the course (97% of my Social Confidence Community members finished the course - unheard of, industry standard is around 20% only) …

… and thanks to the easy, small digestible chunks with specific actions steps you’ll rapidly master this.

In just 4 hours you’ll know exactly what to say, what to do, and how to do it. You'll stop doubting yourself and feel confident about your tapping abilities.

Ready to get UN-STUCK? Here's how you'll take control of your own emotional world.

How To Neutralize ANY Negative Emotion

Have you ever tapped and the emotion just wouldn’t release?

Of course you have.

Well there is a reason (three actually) for why that happens.

When you apply the simple solutions I share here you can calm yourself down easily and quickly. You’ll know exactly what to do when “an emotion gets stuck” so you are no longer a victim to how you feel.

Imagine actually neutralizing your shame, insecurity, fear, anxiety, guilt, hurt etc

Quickly stop feeling bad. And actually be in charge of your emotions.

How To Destroy Any Limiting Belief

Get ready to destroy ANY negative or limiting belief you have.

Beliefs like… 

• “I’m not good enough”
• ”people don’t like me” 
• “I have to perfect to be accepted”
• “I can’t overcome my social anxiety” 
• “There’s something wrong with me”

… you can neutralize step-by-step. It’s easy once you know how to do it. 

Here you learn exactly how to do it. 

Limiting beliefs are responsible for the perception of danger. Perception of danger activates the FFF (Fight, Flight, Freeze) response. Which leads to social anxiety. 

No perception of threat = no FFF activation = NO ANXIETY

Enough said.

Live Coaching Sessions (replays) With Social Anxiety Sufferers

Watch replays of live video webinars I did with social anxiety sufferers.

You don't find this anywhere in the world.

See me apply the tapping to Nathan’s social anxiety issues. And observe how he goes from anxious to calm and at ease.

Observe Mahsa release deep, long-held childhood baggage. See her make a profound transformation right in front of your eyes.

In short, see me put in action what I taught you in the Tapping Mastery course. 

Now it's obvious for you what to do. 

Not only that, you’ll also be able to relate to their issues (and conclude you’re not the only one who suffers, which builds self-compassion). 

You’ll see how their fear, insecurity and shame easily gets shifted and changed around.

Which leaves you feeling empowered to take control of your own social anxiety. 

You see them transform on screen and you go “oh this is easy I can do that too” and you feel inspired to do it yourself. 

But best of all...

You will simply tap along with them on screen. And while the root causes of your SA are different...

... how it manifests itself is very similar.

And because you can relate to their issues your subconscious "connects the dots" and YOU gain massive relief too (see testimonial section at bottom of this page). 

Acceptance = Success Package 

You’ve learned a bunch of kickass tapping skills. And you’ll now use them to start the journey to accepting your current social anxiety problem, accepting yourself while dealing with it, and accepting how limited your life is as a result of our social anxiety.

“Wait, what?!

Accepting my social anxiety? I want to get rid of it!”

I hear you.

But the simple truth is that any change starts with acceptance first. 

In fact, first achieving acceptance is... 

Something triggers your social anxiety.

It SUCKS.

But what if you could use that trigger to decrease your social anxiety?

It’s a bit like the martial arts ‘Aikido’, where you use the momentum of the opponent attacking you and you redirect it to win the fight.

Your social anxiety is attacking you, and you use the attack to your benefit.

Getting triggered with social anxiety now becomes an opportunity to empower yourself.

Why?

Because with this powerful formula you use the trigger itself to decrease your social anxiety.

Each time you get triggered you use this formula to uncover the trigger and release it. 

So you systematically transform your triggers into rock-solid social confidence.

Now YOU are in control.

As my coach would say, “YOU are now the one driving the bus”.

Are you like Mary?

This program is what I’d give to Mary. Or my sister for that matter (if she had social anxiety). 

And I’d tell her to spend 30min a day on it.

Let's walk through what could happen.

Mary starts…

She feels excited about discovering about her inner world.

She can’t wait to gain this emotional control. She’s a bit worried though…

“what if I don’t finish the course?”

She’s bought courses in the past and didn’t finish them. They’re somewhere on her hard drive… 

Anyway, the 97% completion rate I told her about reassured her, and she gets going.

And to her surprise she not only continues the tapping course, her motivation actually increases.

She says: 

“It’s easy to understand and I love learning about how my mind and emotions work. It’s insightful to know why I got stuck in the past. I’ve had so many aha-moments!

I feel empowered now that I learned the simple solutions. I won’t get stuck anymore! 

It’s also interesting to hear the examples from other people who overcame their social anxiety.
I can relate to their issues which is reassuring.

Plus, I have these little exercises I complete and I feel that I’m actually getting a handle on this. 

And the one time I felt low on motivation I used the tap-along and it instantly felt excited again.
I now not only know I can do this, I actually AM doing this.”

Excellent. 

After 3-4 weeks I check in with her to see how she’s doing. 

Mary is excited! She said she initially had thought:

“it will be hard to do this tapping…”

… but she tells me that the instructions were so dead simple she thought a 12 year old could follow them 

She also liked the animations. And she compliments me that they are funny and make things crystal clear. 

She says:

Taking the tapping action is literally as easy as following the recipe that was laid out for me.

Step 1, step 2, step 3. 

She goes on to say that here worry that... 

“it won’t work for me…”

… is gone!

When I ask her why she thinks that is, Mary answers:

"Because of two reasons.

First of all, I tapped on the worry itself. And second of all…

“I am already seeing a reduction in my social anxiety!”

I feel less anxious. I have more emotional control. I don’t beat myself up like I used to. I feel better about myself.

I am calmer and more comfortable socially. 

Awesome. 

I tell her these are common results after 3-4 weeks of tapping in the right way (see testimonials bottom of the page).

I congratulate her, and tell her I’m happy for her. 

I say to Mary: 

• You become an expert at tapping and you feel a lot more in control of your emotions.
  
  
• You create an empowered mindset so you can overcome your social anxiety
  
  
• You start decreasing your overall social anxiety
  
  
• You accept your anxiety and yourself - a prerequisite for change
  
  
• Your social anxiety stays around for less long
  
  
• You beat yourself up less frequently and for shorter periods of time, until it stops completely
  
  
• You feel less bad about your social anxiety problem and better about herself 

PLUS…

• Your self esteem and self worth gets a boost
  
  
• Your worrying about upcoming social situations decreases
  
  
• You starts healing your past so you stops re-living it. You therefore no longer get triggered by past experiences. Now you stay present and connected, whereas before you felt anxious, insecure, awkward or inferior (often for no good reason)
  
  
• You use your trigger experiences as healing opportunities. You therefore keep decreasing your remaining social anxiety.
  
  
• Step-by-step you experience a deepening social ease
  
  
• You feel more and more comfortable around others
  
  
• You feel ‘normal’ more and more often and feel a sense of belonging
  
  
• You have lasting, permanent results
  
  
• Your social anxiety isn’t holding you back in life anymore
  
  
• You face life with confidence because you know she can handle anything it throws at you 
  
  
• You enjoy being around others, laughing, having fun, and just being yourself 

…

What if this is possible for you too?

Look - this program is VERY DIFFERENT from CBT and exposure therapy.

Forcefully facing your fears is not necessary.  

The idea behind forcing yourself to facing your fears progressively is to teach yourself you can handle the anxious symptoms. And that you can handle any disapproval from others. 

Solid concepts.

By coming up with real world evidence that socializing ain't that bad, you start to build up more of a sense of safety. 

The problem is that it is HORRIFYING to do. 

Another problem is that it only lessen social anxiety. 

And that it does this for only about 50-60% of people. 

for 40-50% it doesn't work at all..

And, the people it does work for, only make progress. 

SO THEY'RE STILL ANXIOUS, just less. And they think better about it. 

This program uses tapping to GET RID OF THE ROOTS OF YOUR FEARS (and it improves your thinking too). 

See, your limiting beliefs and social fears are learned.

They were learned through repetitive negative experiences,  programming, and Significant Emotional Experiences.

And with tapping we can RELEASE this.

In doing so we release the origins of your fears and beliefs. 

That will dissolve them.

When the fears and beliefs that form the perception of threat socially have been released, your social anxiety is gone. 

As in there is NONE.

Now this won't happen overnight. If you've been suffering for a long time this is not realistic.

But, you can expect a progressive reduction of your social anxiety when you follow the simple exercises in this program. 

Forcefully facing your fears is horrifying to do. This is not like that at all.

You do face your fears, but you face them INTERNALLY.

So you get permanent results (as you can hear from the video testimonials at the bottom of this page).

This is all about gentle transformation from the inside out. 

Imagine being yourself socially, freely speaking your mind, connecting with others effortlessly…

… what would it be like to fit in, be normal, have satisfying relationships with people and feel at ease, calm and enjoy social interaction

Are you interested in getting results like Mary?

Then this program is for you.

So what's the deal?

You’re probably wondering how much it is. 

And I like to make a comparison, so you understand the value. 

A 1 on 1 online coaching session with me over Skype $250 (in person is $335/hr). That’s 90min. 

The content in this course is over least 10 hours worth of some of my BEST tactics, techniques and strategies. Plus you get to sit in and tap along with two life-transforming webinars I did with socially anxious clients. 

In value that would be at least $1665 (and I don't teach in private sessions much of what I do teach you in this program). 

And you get it all for just $129.

And to make it totally risk-free for you: