I’ve got some questions to see if you’re the kind of person I can help:

Have you ever felt totally fine one moment…

… but someone walks in, or something is said, or the attention turns to you….

…and before you know it you feel super anxious and you cannot control it?

I tried to control my anxiety and feelings, but I couldn’t. It was torture.

My life was a socially anxious hell for over a decade.

It was really tough.

Especially because I initially didn’t know what was going on with me. And I of course had no clue about a possible solution.

The first light at the end of the tunnel happened when I discovered personal development.

I now had hope: I could improve myself.

This began a self-help obsession.

I began changing thoughts, saying affirmations in the mirror, and I faced some of my worst fears.

From approaching women to publicly humiliating myself, and from public speaking to getting myself rejected on purpose…

I did whatever I was told would work.

I was desperate

After 5 minutes of this, all the shame was gone!

Instead of it I now felt a deep sense of calm in my body. Something was very different now.
I felt comfortable. Accepting. At ease.
And I could talk about my big secret like it was nothing.

I wasn’t ashamed of it anymore.

Amazing!

This blew my mind.

And that one shift changed my life.

Not because it resolved my social anxiety…

…because it only decreased some of my social anxiety…

But because

I now had finally found something that worked.
I now had a technique that could release the shame, fear, anxiety and other negative emotions that kept me stuck.

The progress on my #JourneyToSocialConfidence now sped up significantly.

It still took me many years to become socially at ease. 

But I made improvement. 

After a few months of tapping after that workshop, I felt less anxious overall. And I got triggered less frequently too. 

I then began having ‘no anxiety’ in social situations I used to feel anxious in. 

I eventually managed to stop beating myself up after shitty social events…

And I began feeling more and more at ease with more and more people.

And eventually, I went from anxiety-free to effortlessly at ease.

Now I could just be myself. 

Say whatever comes to mind. 

Not feel the need to seek approval. Or worry about disapproval. A liberating experience, and one full of connection, fun, and ease. 

Now my life isn’t perfect. For sure. 

But socially, I’m thankfully totally at ease being myself. And it’s been like that for years now. 

And this profound transformation didn’t just happen through tapping on my own. 

I had help from a wide variety of EFT practitioners. My own high-level coach. My psychotherapist mentor. And various other resources.

After all, this was in 2006, there were no social anxiety coaches! 

I had a lot of great help, and it was necessary.

I mention this because if I’d just been tapping on my own, I’d still be anxious today. 

That said, if I just had sessions with my coach without EFT, I’d also still be anxious today. 

It’s not either/or. We need both. 

Why?

Because powerful, lasting results come from using tapping in the right way.

Tapping on the right targets. 

And to find the right targets you need to have a solid understanding of the psychology of change. 

You need to know how to tap. 

And you need to understand the different stages on the journey to social ease.  

And this wasn’t known when I started. 

This is why it took me so long to get to social ease. 

I had to discover what worked. 

In October 2009 I had made profound changes. My social anxiety had improved significantly. 

I knew EFT worked. For sure. 

So I decided I was ready to start coaching others. 

In hindsight, I wasn’t a great coach at all. But I had good intentions, and a powerful technique. 

And since then, I studied the best in the world in EFT land, personal development, psychology, neuroscience, Eastern thought, and so on. 

I took workshops all over the world. 

Got supervision from EFT Masters. 

Worked with my high-level coach on a weekly basis. 

Got 6 years of mentoring from psychotherapist, trainer of trainers, and therapist to therapists, Dr David Lake. 

And studied all I could find from different fields. 

And this led to me eventually resolving all my own social anxiety. 

And, to be able to help others become socially at ease too. 

The way I feel socially is just this: normal. 

I feel at ease, comfortable. And that’s become my new normal for many years now. 

Friends I’ve met later in life have a hard time believing this was once such a problem for me, because socially I feel liberated, relaxed, comfortable. 

More so than your average person. 

Not saying this to brag. I’m not trying to impress you. 

Just sharing with you what is possible. 

And, these results are not unique to me. 

On my Youtube channel you find various video testimonials of former clients who also resolved their social anxiety. 

That’s people just like you who after years (decades for some) resolved their social anxiety. 

So, it can be done. 

Now it won’t happen overnight. 

Even though tapping supper effective, magic pills don’t exist. 

But…

… certain techniques and approaches are far more effective than others. 

And you too can change, when you apply powerful techniques in the right way. And, when you use an approach that is effective, and efficient. 

Creating an approach like that is what I’ve dedicated my life to. 

I found EFT in 2006. I started coaching others in October 2009. And I’ve since continuously improved my approach. 

Today I offer various programs and services that consistently help people feel more at ease socially. 

And on October 14th, 2020 I’ve got something really special happening for 100 people only:

The Social Confidence Booster Experience LIVE

Massively Reduce Social Anxiety Suffering In Just 10 Weeks &
       Enjoy 2021 With Renewed Confidence, And Social Ease

10 Live coaching webinars to tap along with to reduce your social anxiety
(You can join anonymously, and the replays are yours forever)

This is made even more powerful through:

• 2 powerful tap-alongs/week (20 total) to stay motivated and optimize your results
• Super Simple Tapping Course - Tapping has never been so straightforward and easy
• Presentation: How To Create A Tapping Habit - The no-effort way to reduce SA

I’ve put this super empowering experience together for one main reason:

Group Coaching Creates Powerful Results Fast!

I have at this writing a waiting list of 22 SA sufferers wanting private coaching. And they are all receiving this invite you’re reading right now.

Because I won’t be doing 1 on 1 coaching anymore.

Why not?

I’ve discovered how I can leverage my impact.

And help more people at the same time.

As it turns out…

‘GROUP Coaching With Tapping’ is a fantastic way to address social anxiety!

This is what we’ve been doing inside our ‘Social Confidence Club’ (closed for registration).

Here we do ‘Group Tapping Meetings' on Zoom.

And our members report they are life-transforming.

TESTIMONIAL

What happens during ‘Group Tapping Meeting’ is this:

I coach a socially anxious volunteer.

And I do this in roughly the same way as I’d normally do that in a private coaching session:

1. I ask what the worst social anxiety problem is.
2. I guide my client to neutralizing it completely.

The difference is that I also explain a bit why we tap in this way.

And why it works.

Besides that, it’s just the same as a regular 1 on 1.

Everyone who is watching the session, ‘taps along’.

And this has turned out to be surprisingly powerful.

Because when you tap along with someone with SA in your screen…

• You can relate to his/her thoughts and feelings
• You get insights into their own issues.
• You learn how to tap more effectively as you see me coach

And most importantly…

… you reduce your own social anxiety issues just by tapping along!

Now this is hard to believe for people new to tapping.

And I initially also didn’t know how effective it would be…

But I figured that at the very least people would learn how to tap better.

They’d be able to relate to my anxious volunteer’s thoughts and feelings (and this would normalize their own suffering)…

… and I knew those watching would feel inspired by the transformation they’d witness.

Plus, I had good hopes that ‘Borrowing Benefits’ would work some magic.

BB is a well-known phenomenon reported by many EFT experts:

“One of the most profound discoveries in EFT in the early part of the twenty-first century was the phenomenon called "Borrowing Benefits." It's the discovery that simply watching someone else do EFT on their issues, while tapping along with them, can help you reduce the emotional intensity of your own issues.”

-Dawson Church, PhD, Best-selling author, Award-winning researcher, ,
founder of EFTUniverse.com

And I figured that what we’d do would potentially be far more powerful than regular BB.

Why?

Because BB was discovered on EFT workshops where Gary Craig tapped on a random issue with a client. And all the workshop participants would tap along, despite having totally different issues. 

For example, Gary might tap with a client who has a spider phobia.

And people in the room can’t relate to the spider phobia at all.

One might have a height phobia. Another a painful memory. The next suffers from the pain of a break-up.

And yet…

… they got results!

They still ‘borrow benefits’ from the session they watch and tap along with.

It’s crazy to think this actually works, but it does.

It’s been reported on for years, and there are even 3 studies done on it.

Painful memories reduce or neutralize. Personal issues become less of an issue. People feel less worried, more at ease, etc.

And that’s with ‘regular BB’.

I consider our set up ‘Borrowing Benefits on Steroids’.

Why?

Everyone tapping along has social anxiety issues!

Which means a lot of the same beliefs, thoughts, feelings, worries, resistances, and so on.

I’ve heard over and over statements like

“OMG, I feel just like you feel around your boss”

"I could really relate to your issue, and got huge relief tapping along with you, thank you so much for being so brave”

And, when I work with a client who reports on her issue, I often say to the group:

“if you can relate to this, raise your hand”

And 9 times out of 10 all hands go up!

Plus, there’s something even more special that we started doing last July:

Tapping with the whole group!

Here I guide the group as a whole through a tap along.

Everyone remains muted, or I have one person as a volunteer.

Or -and this more often is the case- I randomly ask people if they’d like to unmute themselves.

If they agree, I ask how they feel.

No surprise here, the answer is always ‘anxious’

I then help this person to release the anxiety in the moment. This usually happens quite quickly. After which I move on to the next person

Not knowing what to expect, creates anticipatory anxiety for those on the call.

“Am I going to be called on?”

It brings up all sorts of social anxiety issues that normally happen in social situations.

But the big difference is that it now happens in this friendly, non-judgmental environment. And in this environment, we welcome all of the emotions that come up.

And as they come up, we tap through them.

This is SO POWERFUL!

In this way I work with maybe 10, sometimes even 15 different people in 90minutes.

So all these individuals share their unique social anxiety story. Which you for sure can relate to.

How do I know?

Because it happens all the time.

People mistakenly think their social anxiety suffering is so unique. But it isn’t. The history of how it came about is unique. You as a person are of course unique…

… but how social anxiety presents itself is very similar.

Therefore these webinars lead to profound breakthroughs for those attending.

Including the people who are not visible in screen. And even those who just watch the replays!

These ‘Group Tapping Meetings’ are very powerful because:

And, you can choose your level of participation.

You can fully participate with camera on…

… or be there silently in the background, camera off.

So if you want, you can remain completely anonymous.

You join these powerful, life-transforming live coaching sessions in 3 different ways:

Just like in a real social situation. 

The big difference is that this time, you're surrounded by people who experience the same issue. And you're in a place where it's normal. 

Anxiety here isn't judged. Nor do we hide it!

To the contrary:

We welcome and allow all the feelings. 

And, there's an extra special component here:

We are all tapping!

So the triggered anxiety, shame, insecurity, and so on rapidly reduces. 

Fears of... 

• being judged 
• being seen anxious
• awkward situations
• doing it wrong
• your mind blanking
• appearing stupid, lame, uncool or boring
• embarrassing yourself

Etc

... are all welcomed and addressed! 

And, you'll be gently coached through them. 

And as you tap and release them, everyone else tapping along benefits from your little coaching session.

Or, if it's not you receiving the coaching session, you benefit from his/her transformation. 

We all win. 

Everyone is in the same boat. This is a safe place full of understanding, acceptance, and compassion.

Through the ACT approach (Acceptance Compassion Tapping) we playfully work through triggered feelings that normally come up for you socially. 

It's scary, sure. But it's doable. And you can choose the level that you can handle. 

All from the comfort of your own home. 

And, it’s often fun, and entertaining.

Now, this is great for you because…
You get to reduce your social anxiety from the comfort of your own home.

You’re supported on your #JourneyToSocialConfidence by a group of caring, friendly, compassionate, optimistic people.

You’re no longer going at this difficult problem all alone.

Instead, you’re part of a community of like-minded people, all working towards the same goal of social ease.

And you’ve got the accountability in place to keep you going.

See, it’s one thing to learn tapping for yourself, it’s a whole other thing to experience it done for you. To watch people make transformations right in front of your very eyes.

It’s super inspiring and makes a world of difference.

 Not only that, you will also learn a lot about yourself, and your emotions.

Your relationship with yourself, and with anxiety, will change. And you will no longer feel you’re broken or that there is something wrong with you.

You’ll discover what makes social anxiety worse, and stop doing it.

 And you’ll get powerful strategies to reduce it, and minimize it, when it comes up.

You’ll learn to laugh at yourself, your struggles, and your issues.

And you’ll truly understand social anxiety, and how to pick it apart piece by piece.

Common results you may experience too are:

• Feeling less anxious overall
• Anxiety leaving faster
• Silence your critical inner voice, stop beating yourself up, and increase self acceptance
• Feeling more self-compassion
• Being anxiety-free in situations that used to trigger anxiety
• Taking yourself less serious
• Feeling better about yourself
• Feeling happier, more optimistic about your future
• Feeling stronger, more confident, and more resilient
• Feeling more grounded, and having more emotional control
• Increased inner peace
• Knowing how to effectively tap on your own issues

Each webinar is 90 minutes. Times 10 - 15 hours total.

How much more at ease will you feel after 15 hours of tapping on your social anxiety issues?

This really works. EFT has over 100 scientific studies backing up its effectiveness. And you can see the many, many (video) testimonials I’m proving you with.

"this won’t work for me”

… is just your inner voice sabotaging you.

Don’t listen to it.

This is gentle enough. You can do this.

Give this a try, you have nothing to lose.

And… while you might not achieve 100% social anxiety-free. You’ll can get a significant reduction in your social anxiety in a short period of time.

Imagine what even 50% less social anxiety would do in your life?

How much easier would that make interacting with others? How would that improve your relationships?

And, you don’t have to stop. There are options to take it to the next level. But this is the powerful boost you’ve been looking for.

And the powerful results that you achieve are yours forever. This is going to help you not just for a few months, this benefits you for the rest of your life.

Now I’m sure you’ve tried things before. This is not your first attempt to address overcome your social anxiety. I get it.

But forcefully facing your fears doesn’t work for many people.

And social anxiety isn’t just a logical problem. It’s not just your thinking that is the issue. It’s the emotionalized thoughts that are the real problem.

They cause the real suffering.

And you can’t easily change these with rational approaches.

It’s very difficult, at best. And takes a lot of time.

This powerful approach combines the best of traditional psychology with EFT tapping.

This is already a super powerful combination.

But now we’re also adding the group element to it.

You literally guided, so you can’t do it wrong. All you do is follow along.

And you’re supported by a community of people you can relate to. Who are all optimistic, and focused on social ease, just like you.

You’re getting the best of all worlds.

This is a fantastic approach to finally break through.

This is different from anything you’ve ever tried.

This works. And it works powerfully.

Now one of the great things about this Zoom set up is that I can offer you this at a very affordable price.

10. BONUS
    
    You’ll also get The 4 Practical Tap-Alongs For Rapid Relief And Instant Motivation
    
    Anticipatory Anxiety Tap Along If before a particular social event you are feeling anxious, then you follow along that tap-along and reduce, maybe even release all of that anxiety.
    
    The Post Shitty Social Event Tap Along If you ever felt bad after a social event, boom. You pop on this tap-along, you listen to it, and tap-along. You calm yourself down, and you release those emotions.
    
    Setback To Healing Opportunities This is when you notice that you have a setback. This will shift your perspective. It will get you back to have the right kind of perspective in order to heal what has come up for you, and significantly reduce your suffering. It might even get you to feel grateful for what have happened.
    
    Boost Your Motivation Tap Along Have you ever found yourself feeling low on motivation when it’s about to do time to do some tapping? This ‘Motivation Power Up’ refuels your motivation in just 13 minutes.

11. No Risk For You - Money Back Guarantee

You might still wonder if this will really work for you.

I get it.

So I’m going too make this totally risk-free for you. You can join the first 4 webinars and tap along with them. Or watch the replays. Or both.

That’s a full month of live webinars. 6 hours of powerful tapping exercises. And 8 tap alongs.

And if after these 30 days you are not satisfied for any reason, simply ask for a refund and I’ll happily refund your money.

No questions asked.

That’s a crazy offer, because you can easily watch all 4 of them and ask for your money back.

But, I am so convinced you will LOVE them that you can’t wait to for the remaining ones.

That’s what’s been happening inside our SC Club.

So that’s why I’m offering you this opportunity.

You have nothing to lose here.

And you have increased social ease, confidence, and connection to gain.

Hurry Up - Limited Spots available

I am running the Social Confidence Booster experience live for you to get ready for a more confident, comfortable, and at ease 2021 experience.

Our first live webinar will take place on October 24th.

And I want you to go through some simple training beforehand, which I’m going to give you two days for to complete.

(takes you maybe 30-45min)

Therefore, registration closes at 23:59PM, October 22nd, EST time.

I can only handle a certain amount of people.

Only 100 people can join the SC Booster experience.

I expect this to sell out, so hurry up so you don’t miss out.

Given the rapid growth of Social Anxiety Solutions, it is likely I am only offering this once.

BONUS II - Resistance Blaster Video
Have you ever had thoughts like….
“There’s something wrong with me”
“This won’t work for me”
“Others can get results, but not me”
“This is too hard”
“I won’t stay motivated”

Well these emotionalized thoughts keep people stuck forever. 
That’s why I’ve created this 20min guided ‘Resistance Blaster Video’. I lead you by the hand through a super powerful technique to eliminate those blocking thoughts for good.
After you’ll feel lighter, energized, and empowered. 
You know change won’t be painful, scary, or overwhelming. 
You’ll feel hopeful and optimistic about change, and you’re eager to get started.

So here’s what you get when you get the
‘Social Confidence Booster Experience’

10 super powerful live coaching sessions to significantly reduce your social anxiety
(You can stay totally anonymous and you have lifetime access to the replays)

Boost your social confidence from the comfort of your own home.

These webinars provide a  safe and friendly environment to trigger some anxiety and tap through it, guided by an expert.

You’re no longer going on this journey all alone. You’ll be part of a group of awesome people who are on the same path to social ease.

You’ll hear others share, you can relate, and release your issues while you tap along with those of others.

You’ll also learn how to tap effectively yourself.

You actually see it demonstrated, so it becomes obvious how to do it yourself.

You further discover new areas to tap on that you hadn't thought of before and create big breakthroughs.

—> Silence your critical inner voice, stop beating yourself up, and increase self acceptance

—> Take yourself less serious and feel good about yourself
—> Feel stronger, more confident, and more resilient

Instead of painfully awkward exposures where you have to force yourself to face your fears…

… This is a fun, easy-going, soothing way to release your Social Anxiety

2 tap alongs a week

 Staying motivated and making progress the easy way.

Just turn on and tap along without much effort. 3 activities a week to keep you you’ve got accountability is in place. Now you are consistently tapping towards social ease.

Simple Tapping Course - makes your personal tapping as easy as 1-2-3

How to create a tapping habit - so you’re automatically doing your daily tapping and reduce stress, worry, and anxiety

Resistance Blaster Video - To quickly stop those self-sabotaging thoughts and feel empowered and eager to move into confidence

What’s app chat/chat under video - to communicate with others going through the booster experience, to share, relate, read about others making a transformation

4 Bonus tap-alongs To boost motivation at any moment, reduce anticipatory anxiety, bounce back from a setback, and quickly feel better after a difficult social situation

…

You get all of this for one payment of $499 (or 3 x $139)

This is an investment in YOU. An investment in your future. Because how you about yourself, and how you feel around others affects everything.

Plus, the results you accomplish will stay with you forever.

And remember, you’ve got absolutely nothing to lose as you can watch the first 4 webinars and if you don’t like it for whatever reason you get your money back.

No excuses.

This is the opportunity you’ve been looking for to become authentically YOU. To change these patterns that stop you from being yourself.

You won’t change into someone else.

We just tap to release the barriers in the way of you feeling safe to be you.

And that empowers you for the rest of your life.

Now the journey is gradual. You won’t be socially at ease overnight.

But the journey to social confidence is simply a journey of a lot of little steps.

Bit by bit you become less anxious. More at ease. More comfortable expressing yourself.

Gradually you begin feeling stronger inside. More resilient, and more OK with yourself.

And socially, things become easier. You find yourself being less serious.

Triggers begin to disappear: You’re not getting anxious anymore where you used to get anxious.

And slowly but surely, you’re waking up from the trace of the social anxiety problem.

And you realize that you’re OK, and that it’s OK to be you with others.

Now you’ll really begin connecting with others. And social ease is becoming your experience.

Now I’m not saying this will happen for you within our 10 weeks together. Everyone is unique and has their own journey. But I feel confident you’ll make significant progress.

And after 2.5 months you’ll be very happy about having made the decision to join us. Because you feel so much better. Less anxious. And so much more optimistic and at ease with yourself.

All it takes is saying yes to this opportunity and showing up.

Aren’t you worth it?

Haven’t you suffered enough?

Then join me and we’ll start releasing your social anxiety together!

We begin October 24th, 6PM, Amsterdam Time.

Make it happen, even if the time is slightly inconvenient. Don’t let the timezone be your excuse.

It’s worth it.

And remember, you’ve got the replays too.

So, ready to start releasing your social anxiety?

Then click ‘I want to join’ below and sign up. Once you’ve done so, you’ll immediately receive everything mentioned above.

So you can start making progress right away.

And then I’ll see you on the 24th!

Click the button below now and I’ll see you on the inside!