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Welcome! It’s Seb, Social Confidence Coach, the host of the podcast show 'Social Anxiety Solutions', and also a former social anxiety sufferer.
I suffered from social anxiety for over a decade.
In social situations, my heart would start to race, I’d get a lump in my throat, feel heat rushing to my face, and I’d be super awkward. Though I, of course, tried to act cool like everything was fine. But the truth was that I felt extremely insecure inside. Especially around cool people. I felt inferior. And around attractive women, I’d freeze up completely.
I worried about what others thought of me, was terrified of blushing -and often did- and got super anxious in anticipation of social events.
I also felt very ashamed of these issues. I thought I was weak. A loser. I cut myself off from others, and often felt very lonely.
I tried to beat my social anxiety by forcefully facing my fears, changing my thoughts, and using mainstream approaches.
But it didn’t work. Any confidence I gained didn’t last.
Eventually, I discovered EFT tapping, a scientifically proven to be effective emotional release technique.
And thanks to this technique, the help of some brilliant therapists, and lots of study and persistence… I managed to become completely anxiety-free.
And not just free of anxiety, I feel simply relaxed, comfortable, and at ease socially. I freely speak my mind, effortlessly connect with others, have fun, and I enjoy a satisfying social life.
And this is not unique to me.
In 2009 I started coaching, and I’ve since helped hundreds of clients become socially at ease.
If you’ve followed me on YouTube, or if you’ve checked out the Masterclass, you’ve seen lots of video testimonials already. And if you haven’t, you'll see them at the bottom of this page.
From my own journey, continuous study of the most effective approaches, 600+ hours of coaching and supervision from some of the best psychotherapists and tapping experts in the world, and >5000 hours of coaching socially anxious clients, and continuous tweaking and improving what worked, I’ve created my own approach to overcome social anxiety.
It’s a combination of the best of traditional psychology, and the power of tapping
And this super combination makes it possible to completely overcome your social anxiety.
Now this might still sound almost too good to be true. But there are 102 studies proving EFT’s effectiveness. And EFT meets the criteria for evidence-based treatments, set by the APA (the American Psychological Association) for a number of conditions, including one of the most severe anxiety conditions: PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).

But while tapping is proven to be super powerful, getting to social ease is still no walk in the park.
As it turns out, social anxiety is a complex issue. And when you don’t know how to tap on it, you’re going to get lousy results.
At best.
When you don’t overcome the subconscious blind spots we all have, you won’t uproot and release your deepest issues, and you remain stuck.
When you don’t overcome resistance, achieve acceptance, and deactivate your past…
… you’ll likely stay socially anxious for the rest of your life.
However, here’s some great news:
I’ve managed to break this complex issue down into easily digestible chunks. And you can learn how to tap in the right way on the right targets.
And with some powerful support and assistance…
… you can step-by-step overcome your social anxiety.
Once you begin chipping away the layers of social anxiety, you’ll start feeling more and more at ease in social situations.
And as you keep at it you’ll eventually reach the final stage, effortless social ease. And now you feel safe being your true self with others.
Socializing then just feels normal.
You’re naturally speaking your mind. Your natural spontaneity has returned. You connect with others effortlessly. And you enjoy being around others.
Socializing is now nourishing to you. It feels good. It’s fun. It’s satisfying.
As a result, instead of dreading it, you look forward to spending time with others.
You wake up without the worry about whether you’ll get anxious or not. Instead, you look forward to the day. Because you now enjoy a social life with people you really like, who really like you.
And this feels really good. You feel secure. At peace. Free. Liberated. Happy. Because you’re finally able to be yourself.
Now this won’t happen overnight.
Though overnight progress is common.
It’s a process. And progress is gradual. It will be a journey of lots of little steps.
I like to call it #TheJourneyToSocialConfidence : a powerful, and extremely rewarding transformation.

And that’s what this invitation is all about. It’s an introduction to the Social Confidence Club, which guides you on that journey. If you’ve done the 30D challenge or have seen the masterclass, that was a slice of the pie. It helped you understand transformation is possible.
Going through the Social Confidence Club is having the real experience of transformation. It’s the whole pie.
It’s where you’re taken by the hand, and led to social ease, one step after the next and the next.
But before I tell you more about it.. I have to warn you. . .
. . .because the Club is only going to be open for 5 days.
On February 17, 23:59PM EST, we close registration. Because we then begin working through the 5 stages to SC together, as a group.
So after February 17, we close for the rest of the year.
Knowing that full well, let’s have a look inside our club:
Do you want to...
⚡ Remain calm and relaxed while in the centre of attention/under the spotlight
⚡ Feel connected with others without trying so hard
⚡ Find it easy to find and keep friends
⚡ Have meaningful and deep connections with others
⚡ Enjoy conversations without worrying about being judged or saying something wrong
⚡ Feel carefree, confident, and at ease during social situations
⚡ Stop dreading and feeling so anxious in the days leading up to a social situation
⚡ Stop feeling self-conscious and wondering if you said something wrong in a social situation
⚡ Stop feeling overwhelmed or extremely nervous in a social situation
⚡ Stop feeling awkward or wanting to avoid people you're attracted to
⚡ Stop doubting and beating yourself up
⚡ Stop worrying about what others think and say about you
Yes?
Click the button below and secure your spot right now!
Do you want to STOP...
⚡ Feeling anxious in the days leading up to a social situation
⚡ Feeling extremely nervous in a social situation
⚡ Worrying about saying something wrong
⚡ Fearing judgment, embarrassing yourself, and being seen anxious
⚡ "Creating" awkward situations
⚡ Beating yourself up afterwards
⚡ Fearing what others think and say about you?
And instead...
🌟 Remain calm and relaxed while in the centre of attention
🌟 Have meaningful and deep connections with others
🌟 Enjoy conversations without worrying about being judged or saying something wrong
🌟 Find it easy to find and keep friends
🌟 Feel carefree, confident, and at ease during social situations
Yes? Good! This is for you!
Click the button below and secure your spot right now!
Let me break each of them down for you:
1. Foundational Social Confidence Training
What do you say when you tap to get the best results?
How do you tap on X issue?
How do you neutralize a limiting belief?
How do you stop feeling shame, insecurity, fear, and so on?
How do you get rid of stubborn resistance?
How do you turn a setback into a breakthrough?
How do you apply counter intuitive tactics to actually speed up your results?
That's what you're going to get in this powerful training.
You’ll get effective strategies to clear your obstacles, challenges, and resistance. You learn what to do when you get stuck. And you bit by bit, learn how to tap like a pro.
And this helps you to reduce and release your social anxiety every single time.
2. Motivation Tune Up Tuesday
Throughout your journey to social ease…
You're going to have setbacks
You're going to have difficulties
You're going to experiences challenges
… and your motivation is going to go up and down. And when your motivation is low, you won’t take any action. And without tapping action, you’re going to remain stuck.
So it’s essential we keep your motivation up. Which is what we do during ‘Motivation Tune Up Tuesday’.
This empowering weekly email contains entertaining stories, motivational quotes, success mindsets, and most importantly - simple, but powerful tap alongs that boost your motivation.
It teaches you key psychology lessons. You’ll master the psychology of change. You're going to develop and maintain a winner's mindset. And you’ll suffer less and get to social ease faster.
This email boosts your motivation when it is low. And it will continuously keep you motivated throughout the journey.
3. Empowerment Thursday
Tapping is super simple. The mechanics of it are super simple. You can find more basics of it online.
But there's no tapping script that's going to resolve social anxiety. You simply won't find how to clear social anxiety anywhere online.
That's because it's a whole study in and of itself. A whole study that I've dedicated my life to in the past 2 decades.
The reality of the situation is that you need to learn how to tap on social anxiety effectively.
You need a roadmap. And that's exactly what we provide inside the club. We present it to you on a silver platter.
There are 5 stages on the Journey to social confidence. And I've broken up these five stages into mini action steps.
Each Thursday you receive one of these action steps.
They are for example tapping exercises to…
Let go off the fear of negative judgment
Stop feeling ashamed and embarrassed
Get rid of anticipatory anxiety
Stop worrying about what others think of you
Boost your confidence and self esteem
These exercises are easy to do. And rapidly bring you relief. They decrease your anxiety and increase your confidence bit by bit.
So each week you move forward from one stage to the next, to the next, to the next, to the next.
It’s a methodology that has a proven track record. You'll have a structured way of going about tackling your social anxiety issues. So all you have to do is simply follow along.
And you don’t have to do it perfectly. As these lessons stand on their own. Though of course,
the more of them you do the better your results.
You'll receive these lessons in various formats.
- Word
- PowerPoint
- Audio
- Video
They often contain templates and fill in the blank exercises. And thanks to our graphic designer and animator, everything is super simple, clear, and straightforward.
We teach you how to tap in such a simple way that a 12 year old instantly gets it.
So you won't make mistakes, it's easy to follow, and you get the most effective results to overcome your social anxiety the quickest.
You also receive powerful tap alongs where all you do is hit, play, and tap along to feel relief.
You'll get clever tapping formulas to supercharge your tapping and little known tricks to speed up your progress to social ease.
I will literally take you by the hand and walk you through all the steps to overcome your social anxiety.
4. A private Social Confidence Forum
You get access to our private social confidence forum. Here you'll find a wealth of resources to support you at any stage in your journey.
Step by step social anxiety solutions for any problem that you might face. All to be found in one easy location.
You also have the extensive FAQ for answers to all your questions. You can ask unique questions too. So we have near instant answers to all of your social anxiety questions.
And because the Social Confidence Club is both accessible via a link in your browser, as it is via an app on your phone, you can watch the replays of webinars, do guided tapping, or find solutions to your challenges anywhere you are: on your phone, your tablet, or your laptop.
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5. Monthly Hang out with other members
Once a month we do a live hang out.
You can bring any problem that you have to the table, and we'll talk about it. Sometimes we play a fun game. We do some activities to challenge yourself (only when you volunteer, of course, nothing is mandatory). Or we do a Q and A.
This is always a jolly good time.
Unlike the Sunday meet-ups, this hang out only happens once a month. But just like the Sunday live tapping sessions, they happen in two different timezones. And of course, replays are available too.
5. WhatsApp Instant Support and Accountability
Feeling down and need some instant support? This is the place.
Want to have some people to hold you accountable? This is it!
We have the bigger WhatsApp group. And in here are kind, encouraging people who are on the same journey as you. From all over the world. So there's always someone online in your time.
Whatever time of the day there’s always someone to share some insight, provide encouraging words, make you laugh, or help you feel better.
Many friendships also have been formed and some members mentioned, it's one of their favorite parts of the club.
And this year we’re also offering something new:
Mini accountability Whatsapp groups.
These are small groups of roughly 5 people of similar timezones. By joining this optional feature you get to have 4 or 5 people to check in with. To support each other. To keep each other accountable.
Some of these mini groups were created organically by members in previous years, so we know some of you really want this. And therefore we offer this option.
Of course, like anything in the Club, it’s totally optional. And you can choose to not participate in it. But you might just find that you really love your little group of support and encouragement.
6. Our Weekend Breakthrough
Live Coaching Sessions (each Sunday)
I’ve saved the best for last!
What are these?
I coach a member of our club, live.
And I do this in roughly the same way as I’d normally do that in a private coaching session:
1. I ask what his/her worst social anxiety problem is.
2. I guide my client to neutralizing it completely.
The difference is that I also explain a bit why we tap in this way. So you learn how to tap in an as effective manner as possible.
I’ll demonstrate live what you learned in Thursday’s tapping lessons. So you learn it more deeply, and can easily copy it later on when you tap on your own.
Now when you’re watching this session, you and everyone else is ‘tapping along’.
This is unbelievably powerful.

Because when you tap along with a fellow SA sufferer live on your screen…
• You can relate to his/her thoughts and feelings - which fosters self-acceptance and compassion
• You get insights into your own issues
• You uncover blind spots you can then move past ‘m
• You feel inspired by the powerful transformation you see happening live on screen - this motivates you to keep up with the journey
And most importantly…
… you reduce your own social anxiety issues just by tapping along!
See, there is this well-known concept in EFT land, called ‘Borrowing Benefits’

But with regular 'Borrowing Benefits', you tap along with someone who has other issues than you. For example, the EFT practitioner might be helping a client with a spider phobia, which you tap along with.
Surprisingly, this is already quite powerful.
But what we do is FAR MORE POWERFUL.
I consider our set up ‘Borrowing Benefits on Steroids’.
Why?
Because everyone tapping along has the same kinds of issues!
When you suffer from social anxiety, you have a lot of the same beliefs, thoughts, feelings, worries, resistances, and so on.
I’ve heard over and over statements like:
“OMG, I feel just like you feel around your boss”
“I could really relate to your issue, and got huge relief tapping along with you, thank you so much for being so brave”
And, when I work with a client who reports on her issue, I often say to the group:
“if you can relate to this, raise your hand”
And 9 times out of 10 all hands go up!
Plus, aside from this 1 on 1 and everyone taps along format, we also do another format:
—> Tapping with the whole group!
Here I guide the group as a whole through tap-alongs. And I check in with people and have little mini sessions with many members of the group.

And I always help the person get rid of some of their social anxiety issues.
I help my volunteers release the anxiety in the moment. Which usually happens quite quickly.
After which I move on to the next person.
So we’re mimicking a real social situation.
The big difference is of course that everyone in our group here has similar kinds of social anxiety issues. Which we all are working to overcome. You’re part of a friendly, non-judgmental group of kind and incredibly supportive people.
And, I guide your tapping, so you don’t have to think of what issues to work on.
These sessions are filled with laughter, and issues melt away like snow in the sun.
Not knowing what to expect, creates anticipatory anxiety for those on the call.
“Am I going to be called on?”
It brings up all sorts of social anxiety issues that normally happen in social situations.
But the big difference is that it now happens in this safe online environment. And in this space, things are very different, because we absolutely welcome all of the emotions that come up.
Since when they come up, we tap through them.
This is SO POWERFUL!
These webinars lead to profound breakthroughs for those attending. Including the people who are not visible on the screen. And even to those who just watch the replays!
These ‘Group Tapping Sessions’ are very powerful because:
A. It’s just like a real social situation so it can trigger feelings that normally get triggered for you
B. It triggers anticipatory anxiety you often feel
C. You’re hearing about the fears, worries, limiting beliefs, and negative emotions from a variety of social anxiety sufferers…
… and you’re tapping along with them, releasing them, and gaining big relief.
And what’s so awesome about this too is that - it is really super simple!
All you do is watch the coaching session while you simultaneously tap. When my client/volunteer repeats a phrase I give him to repeat, you do the same.
Monkey see, monkey do.
And while it’s hard to believe, watching and tapping along gets you relief on your issues!
Our Club members love Group Tapping as it’s so much easier than tapping on your own.
And often it’s far more powerful too.
Many people know of tapping, but report the following problems:
1. I don’t know what to tap on
2. I don’t have the motivation to tap - I’m not consistent and slack off
3. I’m not getting results I like
And our ‘set up’ resolves all of this.
Because all you do is simply show up live (or watch the replay whenever it suits you)
and tap along with the session.
So every Sunday you just click the link in your email and watch the live coaching session and just tap along.
I like to call it ‘The Netflix Of Healing’
You watch, you tap along, and you release.
It’s easy, entertaining, and most importantly: it helps you reduce your social anxiety.
But not only that…

Now as I said earlier, you can choose your level of participation.
There are 4 levels:
Level #1. You watch the replay -
you are 100% anonymous
You don’t attend live. And you watch the replay at your own convenience.
This already gets you profound results.
Level #2. You attend live anonymously
There’s something special about being there live.
However, we don't see you or hear you. But, you can see and hear us. You're not actively participating. And no one will ever know you've even been there.
But of course, you are participating: you’re tapping along in the background.
Level #3. We can see you,
but cannot hear you
You are on camera, but stay on ‘mute'.
This would be the next level. For most people, this triggers feelings of 'I'm being observed', 'they're judging me', 'I have to look cool’, etc.
... all fantastic targets you tap on to reduce your social anxiety!
Level #4. We can see you,
and you can choose to participate
This is the most challenging level, as this may lead to you becoming the center of attention.
It brings up feelings of anxiety about 'possibly being called on'.
And, if you do get called on, you've likely got your social anxiety right there with you, for all to see.
Just like in a real social situation!
The big difference is that this time, you're surrounded by people who experience the same issue. And you're in a place where it's normal.
Anxiety here isn't judged. Nor do we hide it!
To the contrary:
We welcome and allow all the feelings.
I instantly start tapping with you to release the anxiety.
And everyone else is tapping along.
We are all tapping!
So the triggered anxiety, shame, insecurity, and so on rapidly reduces!
Fears of...
• being judged
• being seen anxious
• awkward situations
• doing it wrong
• your mind blanking
• appearing stupid, lame, uncool, or boring
• embarrassing yourself
Etc
... are all welcomed and released! You are gently coached to overcome them.
And as you tap and release, everyone else tapping along benefits from your coaching session.
Or, if it's not you that’s receiving the mini-coaching session, you benefit from tapping along with others.
Everyone is in the same boat. We all win.
Through the ACT approach (Acceptance Compassion Tapping) we playfully work through triggered feelings that normally come up for you socially.
And the changes you make within our sessions translate into the real world out there.
It can be a bit scary at times, sure. But it's doable. And you can choose the level that you can handle.
All from the comfort of your own home.
And, it’s often fun, and entertaining.
Now, the SC Club is great for you because. . .
It is an optimized online environment to heal and grow: You’ll become part of a non-judgmental, compassionate Club to make lasting change over a period of time.
Social anxiety is such a lonely struggle. With the Club, you no longer have to go at this difficult problem alone, all by yourself.
Instead, you’ll have me guiding you through it, one easy step at a time.
When you run into problems, we’re going to tackle them together.
And, you’re also part of a community of like-minded people. All together on the same path.
The Club is a place where you’re not judged. Where you don’t feel weak, weird, or like a loser. Instead, you are welcomed, accepted, and respected.
It’s a safe and supportive location to bring your issues to the table and receive true understanding, compassion, and support.
Plus, you’ll be part of the great group energy and momentum. Because after all, we’re a group of motivated all facing in the same direction. All working towards the same outcome of social ease.
You’ll have all the help you need, with just one click on your phone.
You’re going to have me, our team, and the community behind you all the time, supporting you, encouraging you, celebrating wins with you. And that’s going to make the biggest difference.
Now I knew the community was powerful and healing prior to setting this up. But that it is this powerful was a surprise for me.
And in hindsight, it makes a lot of sense.
Because in order for lasting change to occur, you need to have a safe space to operate from.
Just like a child only feels safe exploring its boundaries when it has the safety of his Mom to return to. Or a baby kangaroo only goes out to explore as it knows it has his Mom’s bag to return to when trouble occurs.
When trouble occurs for you, you have the community to return to. When you have a setback, we’re there for you to support you through it, and provide insight, understanding, compassion, and encouragement.
What makes The Social Confidence Club so unique...
Shared Mission
Being together with others on the same hero’s journey.
Safe Place To Be Vulnerable
Talk about your problems and have people actually care, and understand what you’re going through.
Be Inspired
See other members make progress and move from one stage to the next.
You’ll be inspired by their strength, courage, persistence, and progress.
You’ll hear and see them report on their progress, and this gives you confidence that you can achieve that too.
Challenge Yourself
You’re in a safe, controlled environment full of compassionate people who really get you. This makes it a lot easier to challenge yourself socially by exposing yourself to a social situation (coaching sessions and hang outs). Your feelings get triggered just like in a real social situation.
Camaraderie
Anyone in the community is nice, friendly, welcome and open. In this relaxed space community camaraderie naturally begins to form, over a period of time. Several people have linked up outside of the club and have become friends.
Accountability
3x a week there is an activity to participate in. This consistency and regularity of working through your challenges keeps you accountable.
Be Able To Relate To So Many of The Others’ Issues
Feeling of ”I'm not the only one."
Feeling A Sense of Community
Many refer to their ‘online family’!
What makes The Social Confidence Club so unique...
Full guidance towards social confidence
The Club is 100% focused on helping you overcome Social Anxiety, which is worldwide unique. It's designed to take you through the 5 Stages of Social Confidence in a clear and easy to follow way.
An uplifting, empowering community
You’re in a private, uplifting environment of compassionate people who really get you. Everyone loves the community, and you will too!
Transformation from the comfort of your home, going at your own pace
This inner work healing journey is done from the comfort of your home. Just open your phone or laptop, click the link or hit play, and start releasing SA.
You can do the simple tapping exercises at any time. And you can either choose to attend the live session, or watch the replay whenever is convenient for you.
Easy to follow structure that keeps you accountable
Via short, guided videos we first build a solid foundation. And then our weekly exercises and sessions help you feel more and more socially confident:
Sundays we have social confidence boosting live webinars (with replays).
Tuesdays, tap-alongs that motivate and inspire you.
Thursdays you get cookie-cutter tapping exercises to chip away your social anxiety. It's simple and easy!
Library of tools to soothe anxiety &
kind, supportive whatsapp group
Feeling anxious about an upcoming social situation? Beating yourself up after a shitty social experience? We got you! Simply select the appropriate tap along and experience relief within minutes.
Need extra support? Want to share your breakthrough? Your worldwide group of members are just a short message away. No matter what you're going through, compassion, insight, and friendly support is available to you anytime.
Practical and powerful tools & techniques
You'll learn easy, yet powerful tools like EFT tapping. These you can apply before, during and after any social situation
Imagine finally being able to take control of your mind and emotions!
Plus, by learning 'the psychology of lasting change' you'll:
A. Reduce your suffering
B. Massively shortcut your journey to social confidence.
Expert guidance and a good dose of humor
You’re guided by a former Social Anxiety Disorder sufferer, who deeply understands where you’re at, and can guide you towards feeling at ease with yourself. Seb has been coaching socially anxious clients for the past 14 years, logging 6000+ coaching sessions.
Plus, you'll get to enjoy lighthearted and fun presentations and a good dose of Dutch humor ;)
Participate anonymously or full on
You can choose your participation level for the live webinars.
1. 100% anonymous (watch replay and still gain life-changing results - over 60% of our members do this)
2. Show up live, but be anonymous (cam off, muted, fake name)
3. Participate in writing and speaking (cam off)
4. Participate fully (cam on, open to being called on)
Here's some inspiration from comments of our Club members!






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What's inside the program?
The Club consists of 6 key elements:
Foundation Social Confidence Training
Inside our Social Confidence Club, your path to newfound confidence is clearly mapped out through a series of meticulously designed modules. Each module targets a specific aspect of social anxiety, providing a structured yet flexible approach to personal growth.
Here's some of what we'll explore:
- Turning awkwardness and self-consciousness into self-compassion and self-acceptance
- Gently releasing trauma and childhood baggage
- Overcoming perfectionism and people pleasing
- Neutralising shame and guilt
- Getting rid of social fears and limiting beliefs
- Boosting self-esteem and self-confidence
Motivation Tune Up Tuesday
Embarking on a journey of change, it's natural to encounter an up and down motivational state. There will be setbacks, challenges, and moments of difficulty. But that's where 'Motivation Tune Up Tuesday' comes in - your weekly boost to keep your spirits high and your goals in sight.
Every Tuesday, we deliver an empowering email straight to your inbox, packed with inspiring stories, life-changing lessons, and motivational quotes. It's not just a dose of inspiration; it's a toolkit for developing a resilient winner's mindset and for mastering the psychology of change.
Our emails also feature powerful tap-alongs, an empowering approach to align your emotional and mental states, ensuring you're not just motivated but also equipped to tackle any challenge head-on.
Empowerment Thursday
Each week brings a new opportunity to advance on your journey towards overcoming Social Anxiety. Our carefully crafted, easy-to-follow guided exercises, complete with fill-in-the-blank templates, are designed for anyone and everyone. Just follow along, and gradually experience your transformation.
These exercises are stepping stones to rapid relief and long-lasting results. Each lesson is a unique tool in your arsenal, meticulously designed to bring you closer to your goal of social ease with each passing week.
Each lesson stands on its own. If you miss a lesson or two, simply jump back on the wagon. The more lessons you do, the greater the rewards.
With each lesson, you'll feel yourself moving seamlessly from one stage to the next, bringing you one step closer to achieving effortless social ease.
Private Social Confidence Forum
Our online forum offers a safe space where every member's feedback is important. Share your thoughts, openly or anonymously, to ensure that every aspect of the Club offers an experience that's perfectly tailored to your needs.
Here you'll find a wealth of resources to support you at any stage in your journey:
- How to tap on anything
- If this problem, then do this
- List of World-class practitioners
- Glossary
- FAQ
So you have near instant answers to all of your Social Anxiety questions.
WhatsApp Instant Support & Accountability
Feeling down and needing some instant support?
Want to share your win and have people cheer for you?
Our online community consists of kind, encouraging people who are on the same journey as you, from all over the world. So there's always someone online in your time.
Many life-long friendships have been formed here, making it a favorite part of the Club for many members.
Unlike other online forums, we don't just share struggles; we actively encourage each other towards practical solutions and positive steps forward, balancing empathy with actionable support, empowering you to move beyond your pain and propel you to the next step.
Our Weekend Breakthrough Live Coaching Sessions
Every Sunday, you gain access to a 90-minute session that fits your schedule:
🕓 Group 1: 4PM Bali | 7PM Sydney | 8AM UK time
🕦 Group 2: 11:30PM Bali | 3:30PM UK | 10:30AM New York
These sessions are your gateway to transformation:
🌈 Meet special guest experts – psychologists, EFT pros, and healing masters, offering diverse perspectives and profound insights.
🤝 Monthly hangouts ensure you're always supported on your journey.
🔍 Deep dive sessions with one volunteer.
👥 Group coaching sessions with multiple volunteers, or as a whole gruop
📚 Explore theme-based webinars, tackling 'Awkwardness Training,' 'Fear of Participation,' 'Blushing,' 'Social Perfectionism,' and more.
It's your choice how you participate:
✨ Watch live or catch the replay.
👤 Attend anonymously, chat or use audio only, or step up as a full volunteer with your cam on and unmuted.
🔇 Join live, muted or unmuted.
📷 Attend live with or without your camera.
Tapping along with our volunteer feels like having a personalized session. Hear shared experiences that mirror your own, subtly shifting your mindset, and gradually working on your way toward social confidence.
Led by our Club founder, boasting over 6000 hours of coaching expertise, our sessions blend compassion and playfulness. Your journey isn't just effective; it's enjoyable. And our supportive community keeps you accountable and uplifted.
What's inside the program?
The Club consists of 6 key elements:
Foundation Social Confidence Training
In our Club, we guide you through five clear stages towards social confidence. Each stage includes easy-to-follow steps that address different aspects of social anxiety. You'll get guided tap-along sessions, as well as specific tapping exercises you can do on your own to reduce social anxiety. It's all very straightforward, making your path to confidence both well-organized and simple to follow along with.
Together we'll tap and:
- Turn self-consciousness into self-acceptance
- Overcome perfectionism and people pleasing
- Neutralise shame and guilt
- Get rid of the fear of judgment
- Boost self-esteem and self-confidence
Motivation Tune Up Tuesday
Change can be tough. Sometimes you might face hard times or feel like you're not making progress. This is why we have 'Motivation Tune Up Tuesday' to help you stay positive and focused on your goals.
Every Tuesday, you'll get an email from us filled with inspiring stories and powerful motivation boosters (tap alongs).
This helps you create a resilient mindset. And helps you master the psychology of change.
Empowerment Thursday
Every week, we'll send you an entertaining story that teaches you about psychology. It's an enjoyable way to learn. At the end of the story, you get to pick a tapping exercise. You have three choices:
EASY (5min).
POWER (15min)
HARDCORE (as long as it takes)
Choose one based on how you feel that day. These exercises help break down social anxiety bit by bit. They give you quick relief and make a big difference over time.
Also, each lesson is separate. If you miss one or two, don't worry. Just start again where you left off. You move at your own speed. And every lesson you complete brings you a step closer to feeling comfortable around others."
Private Social Confidence Forum
Our online forum is a safe place where you can talk about your feelings. Ask questions. Share your wins. Get support.
And, you'll find
- How to tap on anything
- If this problem, then do this
- List of World-class practitioners
- Glossary
- Frequently asked questions and their answers
WhatsApp Group Support
Feeling down and needing some instant support?
Want to share your win and have people cheer for you?
Our online community consists of kind, encouraging people who are on the same journey as you, from all over the world. So there's always someone online in your time.
Many life-long friendships have been formed here, making it a favorite part of the Club for many members.
Our Weekend Breakthrough Live Coaching Sessions
Every Sunday, you gain access to a 90-minute session that fits your schedule:
🕓 Group 1: 4PM Bali | 7PM Sydney | 8AM UK time
🕦 Group 2: 11:30PM Bali | 3:30PM UK | 10:30AM New York
Replays are available, and they're super powerful too! >75% of members only use replays to overcome their social anxiety!
These sessions are deeply transformative. And you get to experience various exciting formats:
👤 One-on-one deep dive sessions Here I help my volunteer overcome his worst social anxiety issue. Whether that is fear of negative judgment, anxiety talking to attractive women, fear meeting strangers, blushing, scared to be the centre of attention, you name it. While you safely tap along, You learn a ton, get insights into your own issues, and through tapping along you get relief on your unique issues.
👥 Group tapping sessions Here I do short sessions with many different volunteers. This brings up anticipatory anxiety: “Am I going to get called on? 🙀”
Inside the Club our rule is “social anxiety is NOT a secret” Every volunteer’s anxiety is right away acknowledged, welcomed, and tapped on! So people feel safe being anxious in front of others. Which not only changes the relationship with anxiety, it also releases the anxiety!
💯 Breakthrough workshop sessions These are live mini workshops where we focus on working through a particular issues together as group. The issues are the topic of the month, which might be “getting rid of people pleasing”. Or ‘overcoming social perfectionism”. Or “Getting over the fear of people judging you”.
🌈 World class guest sessions Every month we have an EFT Pro, energy psychologist, or healing master come and guide our group through a powerful healing session. You’ll discover other incredible techniques, learn from the best in the field, and experience deep healing experiences simply by following along.
🔥 Motivation boosting member hang outs Once a month we do check ins with members, which is super inspiring and relatable.
And together we tap to release resistance, boost motivation, and deepen (self) acceptance.
😱 Fear of participation sessions For people who find live webinars too intimidating. Everyone starts off without camera on, fake name, muted. And we gently work through super tiny baby participation challenges. Like clicking the ‘hand raise emoji’ on the count of 3 with the whole group to get started. Writing one word in the chat. And then we slowly increase the challenges. Before each challenge we tap to release the fears fears and worries about doing the challenge. Then you do the challenge if you so choose (you’re always at choice). And then afterwards we tap on any feelings and worries that came up during the challenge. A very gentle way to become more comfortable with participating.
💪 Social confidence challenges For those ready for it, we do little challenges to purposely trigger social anxiety, awkwardness, self-consciousness and so on. We do exercises like “everyone unmute and hum happy birthday”. “Introducing yourself to other members”. And other kinds of exercises that normally get people to feel cringe and awkwardness. All in a safe and controlled setting. And like the FOP sessions, we tap before, during, and after these challenges. While it may sound hard to believe, these sessions are often hilarious and very liberating. And the confidence you create from the comfort of your own home you take with you into the social situations in your life.
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It's your choice how you participate:
💻 Watch live or catch the replay.
🙈 You can attend live and be 100% anonymous. You can choose a fake name, and put an x in front of your name so you won't get called on. Or...
🔇 Join live, muted. No x in front of your name means you chat. And, talk without video on if you're called on. Or...
📷 Attend live with your camera on. And be ready to be called on. And even volunteer with Seb.
"Here's why our webinars are incredibly effective in overcoming social anxiety:
Borrowing Benefits: As you observe and tap along with someone else's session, your brain mirrors their experience. This empathetic response allows you to 'borrow' the healing effects of their tapping. It's a transformative process that happens effortlessly, benefitting you as much as the person you're watching.
Witnessing Transformations: Seeing others overcome their challenges live inspires a powerful thought: 'I can change too.' These real-time transformations provide valuable insights, helping you address your own issues.
Relatable Experiences: The stories, struggles, and breakthroughs shared in our webinars make you feel understood and less alone. This normalizes your issues, reducing self-judgment and increasing self-compassion and acceptance.
Social Confidence Mindset: Our uplifting community helps shift your perspective on social anxiety. You'll start to adopt a more optimistic and relaxed approach, naturally developing a mindset of social confidence.
Comfort Zone Stretching: For those ready, we provide a safe and non-judgmental space to gently push your boundaries. We tackle feelings of shame, fear, and anxiety together, using tapping to clear them. This process builds resilience, confidence, and a playful, less serious approach to life. All these benefits are gained from the comfort of your home, and the confidence you build with us translates seamlessly into the real world."
Here are what other Club members say:








And unlike social situations in “real life”, you here get to instantly tap on them and work through your triggers.
“I love the fact that I can get triggered and yet feel supported at the same time”
See, it’s one thing to try tapping by yourself, it’s a whole other thing to experience it done for you. To simply tap along. And to watch people make transformations right in front of your very eyes.
It’s super inspiring and makes a world of difference.
Further, you will also learn a lot about yourself, and your emotions.
Your relationship with yourself, and with anxiety, will change.
You will no longer feel you’re broken or that there is something wrong with you.
You’ll discover what makes social anxiety worse, and stop doing it.
And you’ll get powerful strategies to reduce it, and minimize it, when it comes up. So that the next time you get triggered, it leaves a lot quicker. And instead of beating yourself up and being hard on yourself, you treat yourself with kindness and compassion.
You’ll learn to laugh at yourself, your struggles, and your issues.
And you’ll truly understand social anxiety, and how to pick it apart piece by piece.
So by now you’re probably thinking that I’ve put together a pretty amazing offer...
But I thought long and hard about how I could make this even better.
And I came up with three amazing bonuses.
Bonus 01: Simple Tapping Mini Course
The first bonus is a ‘Simple Tapping Mini Course’ and it’s all about making tapping so easy and stupid-simple for you that you immediately can get going.
In this 22 min training video I teach you only the absolute most effective tapping strategies. And I’ve added some advanced energy psychology strategies to them.
These techniques are so simple that a 10 year old can use them.
Watch this video once, go over the accompanying PDF once, and you’re off to the races.
You now know exactly what to say, how to tune in, and how to get relief right away.
I’ve never sold this to the general public before. And you’ll get this bonus for free when you join.


Bonus 02: How To Create A Simple Tapping Habit
We are creatures of habit. And the habits we have either get us closer to social ease, or drive us deeper into social anxiety.
This 10min presentation teaches you how to create a tapping habit without much effort at all.
Pretty much everyone inside out social confidence club now has adopted this tapping habit.
Forming habits is tough. But not when you use these hacks. In fact, it’ll be hard not to tap!
Bonus 03: Exclusive List of Top Practitioners
The third bonus is really super valuable and special. It’s a list of top practitioners I’ve personally selected who can help you in private coaching sessions. I don’t share this list anywhere else.
My mentor, psychotherapist and tapping expert Dr David Lake wrote to me:
“I think the Club you’ve created is really fantastic for people. It’s very special. And I think it’s most of what most of ‘m need to get to the other side.”
Which means that for some of you 1 on 1 private work is necessary too. And I believe everyone benefits from getting some 1 on 1 work done. It speeds up your progress. And it enhances the work we’ll be doing together inside the club.


Bonus 04: 4 Super Powerful Tap-alongs
And then finally… you’ll also get these 4 super powerful tap-alongs:
I. Anticipatory Anxiety Tap Along: If before a particular social event you are feeling anxious, then you follow along that tap-along and reduce, maybe even release all of that anxiety.
II. The Post Shitty Social Event Tap Along: If you ever felt bad after a social event, boom: You pop on this tap-along, you listen to it, and tap-along. You calm yourself down, and you release those emotions.
III. Setback In To Healing Opportunities: This is when you notice that you have a setback. This will shift your perspective. It will get you back to have the right kind of perspective in order to heal what has come up for you, and significantly reduce your suffering. It might even get you to feel grateful for what have happened.
IV. Boost Your Motivation Tap Along: Ever found yourself feeling low on motivation when it’s time to do some tapping? This ‘Motivation Power Up’ refuels your motivation in just 13min.
So by now, you’re probably wondering
What It Costs To Join The SC Club
Well, let's put things in perspective.
I am no longer offering 1 on 1 coaching, but back when I did, my price was $250 per session.
The Social Confidence Club will run for a year. And we’ll have weekly coaching sessions.
So that’s 52 coaching sessions x $250 =
Coaching Value: $13 000
I sell products on my website that are different from the Social Confidence Club. The combined amount of all of those products is $775.
The content of them together makes up much less than a quarter of the content of the SC Club. But let’s go for a quarter.
4 x $775 =
Content Value $3100
So combined value is $16 100,-
And all of what is inside those products, and a lot more and a lot better you will get inside the Social Confidence Club. The best and most advanced content in inside the Club.
So how much is the investment?
There are two options:
What's their difference?
VIP Membership
This includes all the Club features + Bonuses + One 90mins private coaching session with Seb.
The private coaching session will significantly speed up your progress towards social ease. You can bring your worst social anxiety issue. Your biggest problem. Whether that’s the fear of being judged. Fear of embarrassing yourself and blushing. Being the center of attention, or whatever it is, we’ll work through it together.
And while I can’t promise we’ll eliminate in a single session, it frequently does happen.
If it doesn’t, at the very least we’ll take a chunk off of it. And you can work through the rest of it during the rest of the Club. You’ll at least feel a lot better. Suffer less social anxiety, and feel more confident and at ease.
Availability of the VIP option is very limited.
Platinum Membership
The platinum option gets you access to everything the VIP option gets access to, minus the private session.
And it’s only $99,- a month.
And each month has 4 Weekend Breakthrough Live Coaching Sessions, 4 Motivation Tune Up Tuesday, 4 Empowerment Thursdays, and 1 Live Hangout.
Plus, there's also the community support, the Live WhatsApp, the bonuses, and the Forum.
It's great. An absolute steal.
And, you can also cancel anytime. All it takes is just one email.
30-Day Money Back Guarantee
This comes with 30 day Money Back Guarantee and I even let you keep all of the bonuses after a month if you try it out and you find this is not for you.
Remember, if you want your social anxiety to change, you're going to have to do something different than what you have been doing.
This approach is very different. And it's got a proven track record.
Just imagine how your life will be different once you've joined the club, and you're systematically chipping away your social anxiety, and you're tapping yourself to social ease.
One last thing that I need to mention...
. . .this is a limited timed offer. You see, The SCC is only open for 5 days...
On 17th of February, 23:59PM EST, we close down registration.
And then it's closed for the whole year.
So if you want to get in, act fast now.
Because we really close registration by the 17th of Feb.
There are no exceptions to come in afterwards because we're going to start working through the steps on the Journey to social ease the day after we close registration.
Put An End To Your Social Anxiety
If you’re ready to create more social ease and put an end to your social anxiety suffering,
then your next step is to click the button below and get registered for the Club.
Now I know some of you may be on the fence about this.
It might currently still be hard for you to imagine being socially at ease… too good to be true… maybe you even feel on some level you don’t deserve it…
I know there are some people who are still thinking to themselves “well, it might work for others, but it doesn’t work for me”. And if that’s you, I just want to say that tapping on your own as an amateur without guidance is one thing…
… it’s a whole different experience when everything is broken down for you step-by-step, when you’re guided by an expert, when you can ask questions, and when it’s demonstrated to you live.
When tapping doesn’t work for you, it’s not because tapping doesn’t work. It’s because you’re not using it correctly.
Inside the Club, we teach you how to do it right. We take you by the hand and lead you. I’ll demonstrate it to you live. And I even guide you through a real-life experience of it, if you choose to participate at that level.
And remember, you choose your level, and you can choose anonymity.
Anything you’ve tried in the past is different from what we do inside the Club. I know this because there is nothing out there like this, anywhere in the world.
And tapping backed up by 102 studies, and meets the criteria of the APA for a number of conditions like PTSD, and you’ve seen -or will see- lots of video testimonials from former sufferers.
This is a super powerful different strategy to overcome social anxiety, and you’ve literally got nothing to lose by trying it. Because there is a 30 day Money Back Guarantee.
So you get to try it out, join the live webinars (anonymously if you like), and just on day 29 ask for your refund and you’ll have experienced everything totally free.
So you have a full 30 days to see if my SC Club is right for you. If you determine that it isn't, for whatever reason, just let us know and we'll gladly refund your money.
No hassles. No hard feelings.
I’ll even let you keep the bonuses as a thank you for your trust in me.
I’m making this so easy for you so I can prove to you that this will make a powerful difference in your life.
Now if you’re suffering from severe depression, you’re suicidal, have a history of sexual abuse, or you’ve got severe mental health issues aside from social anxiety, the SC Club is not for you.
But when you’re dealing with social anxiety alone, this will be incredibly powerful, healing, and positively life changing for you.
BONUS!
When you’re part of the Club you also get to join the once-a-month webinars where we have a guest expert to join us.
These are top therapists, doctors, neuroscientists, psychotherapists, EFT Masters, healers, coaches, trauma experts, and top energy psychology gurus.
I am, thanks to my podcast, connected to the best experts in the world. And once a month one of these legends comes to do a healing session with us. You can ask them anything. You’ll discover new healing methods.
And best of all, you reduce your social anxiety even faster.
One last thing. . .
I am not some tapping magician. I just stumbled onto a EFT - more than 14 years ago and started applying it to social anxiety. Since then I have continually refined my approach. Adding to it. Taking away unnecessary parts. Making it easier, simpler. More practical.
This has evolved into the Social Confidence Club.
This guided and supported experience to overcome social anxiety is now the dream-come-true experience I wish I had when I was suffering.
You’ll have the Forum and WhatsApp with like-minded people, all facing the same direction. Empowered by tapping, empowered by these powerful concepts, with the knowledge you can change, with a support system, accountability in place, being inspired by everyone, the weekly emails where you’re motivated and receive bite-sized tapping lessons, and of course the weekly live webinars where you are tapping along and chipping away the layers of your social anxiety.
You can work on your social anxiety from the comfort of your own home, nobody has to even know you’re doing this, this can be your secret, and all of that for just 99/month.
This is really an incredible deal when you think about how this is going to benefit you. And this is going to benefit you longer than just these couple of months. Because this kind of work that you’re doing is you’re addressing your thinking, you’re addressing your psychology, you’re addressing your mental and emotional well being, your relationships with people, your career… this affects everything, and it affects everything for the rest of your life. The result that you’re producing, the improvement in your mental and emotional health is something you’re going to benefit from for the rest of your life. So do not miss this opportunity.
When you’re ready to finally overcome your social anxiety, speak your mind with ease, enjoy socializing and having fun with others, then here’s what to do right now:
Click the buy now button, fill in your details, and complete your order. After you’ve done so, you’ll receive an email and you get a welcome video from me and you’re part of the Club. You’re now part of the gang. And you’ll feel good and you’ll feel excited because you’ve just invited in a future of social ease.
Now is your time. It’s time to step up. There has never been a better time... but you have to act now... registration is closing soon. Now is the time to act. Enroll in the Social Confidence Club and say yes to effortless social ease. Yes to feeling safe being yourself around others.
I really look forward to serving you and having you inside the club and continue the journey to social confidence together. So click the buy now button below this video and I’ll see you inside the Club.
What Members Say About The Social Confidence Club:
It really changed my life. It really did.
"It's completely different. I don't think of social anxiety anymore. I don't feel twisted.
I go wherever I need to go. I no longer think, "I better not talk so much. I don't want to engage to that person even more."
I can now go with the flow."
This is life-changing. I think I'm living proof.
"I've reconnected with family. My brothers used to be big triggers (my two older brothers), and I actually look forward to calling them, which I can't believe that still. Because I dread every moment of my life, or every moment I was with them for the last 10 years has been very uncomfortable. And then this year, it's been the opposite, it's been easier and enjoyable, I actually enjoy talking to them."
[The anxiety] goes away fairly quickly.
"I had a bit of trouble with meetings. When there's a lot of people and you put me on the spot, sometimes it can be difficult. Whereas before, I used to be a bit nervous, or a lot nervous throughout the entire thing. Now, what's shifted is I might be nervous at the start, and then I'm okay for the for the rest of it. I don't have it. It goes away fairly quickly because I have that understanding of where I'm at, and what it is that I've got, and what we know. So, it goes a lot quicker. It disappears."
I feel like I'm closer to social ease than I am to the social anxiety.
"[The anxiety] sticks around for way less time. I can’t almost feel it. And even as I'm feeling it, it's already on its way out."
I can just say what comes to mind
"Physical symptoms are pretty much almost gone, which is a huge, huge thing. It really is more easeful. That’s a good word to describe it. I’m not overthinking it. And I’m not too worried about my own physical reactions, even my movements, how I’m going to respond to whatever they’re saying, how I’m going to talk with my hands or whatever."
I just feel that I accept myself more. And that brings a lot of relief.
"I feel more accepting of myself as a personality. And I feel more compassionate towards myself; I feel more at ease with myself and feel more comfortable. And it’s easier to talk with people."
I’m just much happier. And I’m just much more into life.
"There can go days and weeks without I’m anxious now. And now, it feels less and less and less and less."
It’s just a huge relief.
"I am less worried. Now, I can go to places and I’m on my way there and I noticed that I’m not nervous about this at all."
I don't even consider myself to have social anxiety at all anymore.
"I'm not embarrassed at all with anything. I was less worried. I developed a lot more acceptance of what I've been through and who I am.
I'm totally relaxed which wasn't the case 20 years ago.
"I can talk to people easily. I can even start conversations. I'm much more energetic nowadays."
I'm getting better and better as I go.
"I started becoming more comfortable in these social situations, which is that's when I really started realizing that this is the real deal and it was working."
P.S. You have a big decision to make. I can’t make it for you... the only thing I can do is tell you that the Social Confidence Club works. And it worked for hundreds of socially anxious Social Confidence Club members. Come join the gang!
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